We have all heard it, accessories are a girl’s best friend, but what about men? It’s important to have a few extra things in life that can enhance any feature or quality that you carry.
So, for men, it’s nice to have a little something to make you shine and make the best of life. Whether it’s a bright smile to cheer on a bad day, good manners or a really, really cool gadget, you’ll be sure to be the best you can be with this list of 10 things every man should have in his lifetime.
1. A Smile
Flash those pearly whites! Everyone loves a great, big smile; it sets the first impression and your initial tone. It’s the gateway to sparking conversations on a whim, and a welcoming way to attract women.
A smile can make anyone’s day just a little bit better, and did we mention, they look great with any outfit? A smile shows that you don’t take life to seriously and adds a little flavor, flare and fun to any occasion. Genuine smiles with pearly white teeth are priceless.
2. A Partner
It’s important to share the love with your second half. We were made as social creatures, so it suites us that we should have our arm around that exceptional someone. Man or woman, it does not matter, a good partner in crime will tell the world that you are not as rambunctious as the next guy.
And we all know that other people are naturally attracted to those already engaged in conversations. It will make you more approachable and intrigue the women in the distance to wonder who is this friendly guy?
3. Manners
Excuse me ma’am, thank you. Manners! They matter. Everyone loves a guy with a little manner that respects everything and everyone day to day. Politeness goes a long way when you’re trying to become not just a better man, but a better person.
Show them that you can eat like a civilized person and can still open the door for the ladies. Show the world that chivalry is not dead, but coming back to avenge the guy who still chews with his mouth open.
4. A Good Cologne
Dang, what is that smell? Stinking is not socially acceptable. Showering and adding moisturizer into your routine isn’t enough to reach the climax of scent. Throw a little body mist or cologne into the mix and your set!
Who cares if it isn’t Gucci or Armani, as long as you smell like rich mahogany (okay we got that from Anchorman) you’re good. However just don’t go overboard, because it’s one thing to add a splash of cologne, and another to smell like you just put on the entire bottle.
And if you’re looking for the best men’s cologne recommendations to get some ideas, check out our men’s buyer’s guide. Find something that’s memorable and stick with it.
5. An Education
Get an education! No one likes the guy who doesn’t know the difference between their, there and they’re. You don’t have to be the brightest crayon in the box, but you better know who the president is and how to spell M-I-S-S-I-S-S-I-P-P-I.
Knowledge is attractive to women, not to mention it will help you keep up in any conversation you manage to get into. So wear those hipster glasses, grab a book and get on it!
However remember it’s not all about just book knowledge, consider traveling to take in some of the local culture and perhaps visiting an art gallery. Talk with other people and learn their insights and experience to become a better versed person.
6. A Stylish Pair Of Shoes
A nice pair of shoes says a lot about character. If you have holes in your shoes, you may as well wear a shirt that says “this guy just doesn’t care.”
A good quality pair of shoes tells society that you care how you look. It may not seem that important, but it really is. Most notably women notice your shoes, not to mention theirs even been studies on how women perceive you based on things like your jeans.
Having a fashion sense is important, and if you’re building up your wardrobe you’ll need more than one pair of shoes. Invest in some Italian leathers and sneakers but please, no mandals (man sandals) those are so 1990, and they don’t make the cut for our top ten list.
And if you’re not sure where to start, check out our buyer’s guide to find the perfect pair of shoes. One of our top recommendations would be anything Allen Edmonds, their known for their sophisticated and luxurious style.
7. A Second Serving Of Confidence
You can’t really enjoy what life has to offer without a meaty helping of self-confidence. It’s pretty annoying to always be around someone who is constantly down on themselves. We have all seen those depressing social media status updates from the same person over and over. Don’t be that guy. Take pride in your work and walk tall into any situation with your head held high.
Throughout history, confidence has lifted people up who’ve dropped to the absolute lowest level of life. Britney Spears (shaved head), Lindsay Lohan (arrested for the 6 time…wait, just in, the 7 time) and Charlie Sheen (he’s got tigers blood in his veins), have all come back to society with a little bit of confidence in their step. It will extend to any aspect in life and make you more enjoyable to be around.
8. A Quality Group Of Friends
Well-known mystery author Dean Koontz pinned it on the head when he said, “Friends are all we have to get us through this life, and they are the only things from this world that we could hope to see in the next.”
Isn’t that the truth? A friend will get you through the day, be there whenever you need them to be and listen when you need a bad day off your chest. Pick your friends wisely, a good bunch can and will make a difference.
9. Gadgets
Gadgets are cool, and collecting them is even better. The latest smart phone, tablet or smart watch will make you the James Bond of any group. Quality accessories will show the world that you appreciate the finest things in life. Watches, phones, tablets and computers are what are hot this season.
Pick the latest in technology and you may be referred to as “that guy.” Remember your watch doesn’t have to be overall expensive, just choose one with a classic design that’s not over the top. Not to mention, perhaps one of the most important items to carry around with you daily aside from the watch is your pen.
A pen tells a lot about a man, from the way you hold it, to the design of the pen itself. Other men can sense your dedication and work achievement when you pick up a special pen to sign business papers. It’s that confidence that’s shown as you sign, which dictates your business experience and background.
10. A Good Haircut
Haircuts are important. Keeping up with the latest hairstyles can be tiring, but having a quality hair stylist or barber can make a worlds difference. No one like Mr. Scruff, so cutting your hair on a regular basis, along with a nice, clean shaven face will make you look up to par. Please, no mullets or comb over’s.
11. A Reliable Timepiece
Watches are the unsung heroes of style, blending timeless elegance with modern functionality. They’re the silent statement piece in any wardrobe, showing the world your appreciation for classic design without shouting for attention. Picture this: you’re casually checking the time during a meeting, and someone whispers, “Nice watch!” That’s the power of subtlety.
12. Quality Footwear
Shoes are the foundation of any outfit, and a great pair speaks volumes. They’re the silent workhorses of your wardrobe, carrying you confidently through various terrains of life. Remember that time you outdanced everyone at the party? Yep, it was probably those shoes.
13. A Tailored Suit
Suits are the armor of the modern gentleman, a must-have for making powerful impressions. A well-fitted suit is like a secret weapon, exuding confidence and professionalism. Think of that moment in a spy movie where the hero suits up for action; that could be you every morning.
14. A Robust Toolkit
Tools are the unsung heroes of a well-maintained home. A robust toolkit isn’t just about fixing things; it’s a testament to self-reliance and capability. Just imagine the satisfaction of fixing a leaky faucet and declaring, “I did that!”
15. A Fitness Routine
Fitness is the new fashion statement. A solid workout routine is your invisible accessory, enhancing your physical and mental well-being. Ever noticed how a regular gym-goer carries an aura of energy? That’s not just sweat; it’s the glow of discipline.
16. A Good Book Collection
A well-curated book collection is a window into your soul, showcasing your interests, intellect, and depth. Plus, there’s nothing like the subtle brag of quoting a literary classic in casual conversation. Books are, for sure, the quiet influencers of the mind.
17. A Signature Scent
Fragrance is the invisible suit of armor, a subtle yet powerful way to make a statement. Your signature scent is your personal brand, an olfactory business card that leaves a lasting impression. It’s like a secret handshake that says, “I’m here and I mean business.”
18. A Passion Project
Hobbies are the secret ingredients to a fulfilling life. Your passion project isn’t just a pastime; it’s a reflection of your creativity and zest for life. Remember how Bob Ross made painting look like the gateway to happiness? Find your ‘happy little trees.’
19. A Trusted Mentor
Having a trusted mentor is like having a personal navigator, someone who’s been there and can offer wisdom and direction. They’re the Yoda to your Luke Skywalker, guiding you through the force of life. Mentors are the silent guides in the journey of life.
20. Financial Plan
Financial savvy is the new smart. A solid financial plan isn’t just about wealth; it’s about smart decisions and future-proofing your life. Imagine being the one in the group who’s always calm during economic turbulence; that could be you.
21. A Comfortable Mattress
Have you heard the old saying that sleep is the ultimate luxury? Well, to add on to that: a good mattress is the foundation of quality rest. It’s not just a bed; it’s a recharge station where you prepare to conquer the world every day. It’s the unsung hero behind every “I woke up like this” moment.
22. Health Insurance
Health is the new wealth. Having robust health insurance isn’t just practical; it’s a statement of self-care and responsibility. It’s like having a safety net that allows you to trapeze through life’s circus with less worry.
23. A Go-To Recipe
A signature dish is your secret weapon for impressing guests and showing off your sophisticated palate. That moment when you serve your specialty and everyone’s eyes light up? Priceless.
24. A Reliable Bag
Bags are the unsung heroes of daily life, carrying your world with elegance and efficiency. A good bag isn’t just an accessory; it’s a companion that shares your journey, whether to the office or on a trip. It’s like a loyal pet, but for your stuff.
25. A Personal Journal
Journaling is a clear path to mindfulness. A personal journal is a sanctuary for your dreams, fears, and aspirations. Like a treasure chest, it holds the priceless gems of your inner journey.
26. A Quality Sound System
Music is the soundtrack of life, and a quality sound system is your personal orchestra. How about experiencing sound in its most exquisite form? Remember that song that gave you goosebumps? Imagine it in high-definition audio.
27. A Plant
Have you heard about the new greenery decor trend? A plant in your space isn’t just about aesthetics; it’s a living piece of art that breathes life and tranquility into your surroundings. Plus, it’s the only roommate that won’t complain about your music choices.
28. A Set of Sharp Knives
In the kitchen, knives are your silent partners in culinary creation. A sharp set can inspire you to craft better meals with precision and passion. Ever felt like a gourmet chef while chopping onions, despite the tears? That’s the knife’s magic.
29. Emergency Kit
An emergency kit isn’t just practical; it’s a symbol of foresight and readiness for any situation life throws at you. It’s like being the superhero of your own life story, equipped for every plot twist. Preparedness is the new cool.
30. A Cultural Experience List
A list of cultural experiences is a passport to personal growth, expanding your horizons and experiences. It’s the bucket list that makes you the most interesting person at any dinner party.